What's up with boys?

this is y u love me right quad?

haha nice I should but his responce will prob be we can make this work...... ahhhhhhh thats what he said when I said that im a church freak and he offended me badly i said something like I have bs then church and I put bs= bible study, he said he had another way to put it! ahhhh im pissed off. hes sooo AHHHHHH!!!!

Say this

"Look I have alot of stuff going on and trying to manage a long distance relationship rigt now will juts pus me to the edge I need my time and space so please just let me be."

lol! yep Mair! lol! XD i love being a quad! but 2 of the guys that possibly like me go to my church, and another one doesnt go to church all the time, but he goes occasionally, at his school. he goes to one of those all guys schools (its not a boarding school though), so none of them mind it.

Ill try...

Girls, let me give you some free advice (and you should take it 'cause I've found and am engaged to the most wonderful guy in the world). First off, when it comes to dating guys the age isn't an issue. If you're a sophmore and he's a freshman and you guys are only a couple months apart (like your birthday is in June and his is in November) then you're not that far apart in age at all. The main thing is that you guys have a connection. If you're a sophmore and the guy is a senior well that can be somewhat of an issue if you kids do things that kids should not be doing...if you catch my drift. The main thing in all cases is that you feel a connection to the guy. If you can talk to each other, if you like being around each other, if you have the same ideas, values, etc. Those are all things that help to build a relationship.

As for the long distance thing, unless one of you has a car or parents who are willing to drive here, there and everywhere then having a serious relationship will be difficult if not impossible. You guys can chat and all but relationships need to flourish in person and not over Facebook or Twitter or My Space or E-mail or whatever. Mind you, you guys are part of the internet generation more than I am so I'm sure that you guys COULD make a long distance Facebook or E-mail or Text relationship work.... the main thing is that you work hard at it and see the other person as much as possible.

And I'm rambling. Sorry. But don't flirt just to get a guys attention. Do not lie and say that you're dating someone when you're not. The best policy is honesty. Tell the guy that you like him-- believe me it's better to know that he's just not that into you, or just likes you as a friend then spend all your time and energy pining over something that will never lead anywhere. And lying-- it's just good karmic policy not to lie under any circumstances. If you have a guy who's into you and you're not into him then just tell him so. If he keeps bugging you then ignore him or if the situation warrents it, go to an adult and say that he's harrasing you...

...okay. I'm done rambling now. Honest I am.

-.-"

That's all I can say to that sis

and you would ramble XD

congrats on the engagement! and thanks for the advice Anji!! but heres the problem: another younger guy (hes an 8th grader) and wants go out with me, and if i did go out with the other younger guy, the other one might get the wrong idea, and think that he's got a chance. thats the conflict here. someone's bound to tell the 8th grader that im dating a younger guy.

This is why I can never date younger guys. My mom even said never date someone younger or same age lol

this guy that i think likes me is like 9 or 10 months younger than me. thats the issue. and i dont really like him more than a friend, because im crushing on an older guy (a junior, only one grade older!!!!)

Which u've mentioned many times XD

yep! i know! i just am confused about wat to do!!

-sigh- You poor thing

yep. poor me! i just dont want to break the younger guy's heart, because he's like my guy bff. he's like my brother.

Did u try telling him that? u like him as a brother?

yep. ive told him that several times. he says the same thing wen hes dating somebody, and has no comment wen hes single. and i told him that i probably wouldnt go out with him, because hes like my brother. and he had no comment. i think he likes me or his ex. idk. its one of us for sure.

hmmm

its confusing! y r guys so complex?

Cause...idk cause that's how life decided to make them? XD

good one quad! im sure...no I KNOW that guys think the same about us girls!

BAHAHA ya probs

its a fact of life, we think guys are complex, same goes for them with us!

yup yup

i think that it should be added to the "Life's Little Instruction Book" lol! XD

omg yes XD